But you are, when you call the GDT pathetic before you leave it.
I like to be exposed to all sorts of point of views, positive or negative, because they help me form an opinion. Doesn't mean I weigh every opinion equally, of course. But I don't crap on the people who don't share mine. Either I discuss with them if they're reasonable (it's the point of a forum after all) and civil, or I ignore them if they're not.
When you come to participate in a forum you should expect to read opinions or attitudes you don't agree with. If all you want is reinforcement of your own opinion you are going to be disappointed.
Oh, I expect to read opinions and attitudes that I don't agree with. And I will call people out on their crap, and I'm sure I'm on enough ignore lists to prove it, lol. Always have, always will. That won't ever stop until I'm six feet under the earth. I do it in real life when I see people's bullcrappery, there's no way I'm going to abstain from doing it here. If your opinion can't hold up to scrutiny, it is a bad opinion - if you're not willing to defend your point of view, then don't offer it. That's how I was raised, and that's how I see it. I'll respect the fact that a person has an opinion, but that in no way means I have to respect that opinion itself.
The eternal pessimist, I choose not to be around that type of personality. That's my choice. It's why I haven't really participated in GDTs for the past year and a half, why I stepped down as a mod, and why I'm increasingly less enthused to participate in discussions here at all. I love discussing hockey, and I love hearing opposing opinions, but I know the extreme pessimism will tilt me, so I usually know better than to set myself up like that. Yesterday's game was the aberration. I know what my faults are, and I try to manage them as well as I can. If that means I have to eventually remove myself entirely, I'm totally fine with that.