We agree on a lot on the accountability issue. Likely less so when it comes to how off (or not) Bylsma is systems wise.
However, what I wanted to comment on was that I very much disagree that this weakness is one that can be changed 'quite easily'.
A personality change is never easy, and becoming a disciplinarian is not a switch you can just flick. Less so within the same organization (not just hockey, works like that in any job setting) that you have previously been known as rather lax/laid back.
Therrien was a somewhat manic hardass from his junior coaching days and to the day he was let go from the Pens. From what I can read about Montreal now, he seems to have the same demands as always, but also to have mellowed somewhat. He has also adjusted somewhat in terms of the hockey being played, but of course he also has a different group of players than before.
As for personality, he has also had a couple of years to reflect on what got him fired from his first two NHL gigs. This matters.
Ya maybe I shouldn't have said "very easy", but again in comparison to someone who is incompetent, it really is a much easier transition by far.
When I was younger I coached in a youth Summer league during the offseason. The first two years I had a rep as the fun coach who even the kids in the upper leagues wanted to play for. I made it fun for the kids and was lucky enough to draft kids who listened and did what I told them.
In my third season I was approached by the chairman to draft two kids as a personal favor... He knew the parents and no other coaches wanted to deal with these two kids... I had to think it over because when I went to scout both of them, it was.... brutal.
The first kid, Evan, would skate in a circle (literally) with his head down on purpose while everyone skated by him. The other kid, Earl, was ultra talented but he had a huge attitude and lipped off to his teammates, coaches, refs and the other team.
I decided to draft them and I thought I would have trouble being the coach who cracked the whip, but I found the transition easy. Evan was easy to discipline, since no one had benched him before. Once I benched him, he suddenly learned how to skate and play defense (a miracle, right?).
Earl was the most abrasive kid I had ever met, though. He didn't pass, play defense and he took ultra long shifts. He had a huge attitude and would ream out his teammates to a degree that pissed me off big time. However, benching him for a few shifts didn't get me anywhere, no matter how much I tried to counsel him on being a team player.
The kid simply didn't learn, but I finally made him sit for an entire game. He threw a hissy fit and left the rink. I talked to his mom and said this was what was best for him and she of course didn't agree, so I had to deal with his incessant whining and her attitude as well.
He returned the next game with the same bad attitude, so I benched him again. I had to do this several times before the message sunk in all while fending off his mother and getting the chairman involved with getting her to realize her son had self destructive behavior.
Eventually, he learned that if you aren't playing for the team, you aren't playing. Over time he became a model teammate and lead us to the championship series, but we lost. Instead of blaming his teammates like he would of done earlier, he blamed himself and comforted the other kids. It was a complete 180.
I drafted him the next season as well and we became really close, until I moved up here.
As I said, I found the transition of being the fun to play for coach, to being a disciplinarian easy. Even when Earl said he hated me and other garbage, I knew what I was trying to teach him was the right thing.
Bylsma is a young coach still. Question for me is, as said many times before, if the Pens in the prime of Sidney Crosby and Evgeni Malkin is where and when he should be developing as a coach. For me, I think if we are in year four and we are talking about the same issues we did 2½ years ago, with no indication that anything is changing as regards the biggests warts.... no, that is not the case.
I think we all get so caught up in what
we want/think, we miss the obvious: Shero is a very patient man and DB won him a cup.
So DB is going to be given a ton of rope to hang himself with. I think he has the potential to be a very good coach, but people don't always fulfill their potential.
As I said, he can become a disciplinarian if he wants. It may not be as easy for him as it was for me, (obviously he is in a professional setting). However, it is very possible to make that change.