oldunclehue
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- Jun 16, 2010
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Hey folks, thought I'd make a thread to discuss the woes of Minor Hockey and as a coach former CHL player, how things have changed, in my opinion for the worse.
Just a bit of background, I grew up playing and loving the sport of Hockey in rural Canada, watching HNIC every Saturday night, Rock Em Sock Em videos and made it to the CHL playing in the WHL. Now I have two sons who are both playing hockey and love the sport. I coach, ref and am a part of hockey development in my area.
But with all of it, I am having a hard time finding a silver lining and seeing what hockey has become in this country.
As a parents:
- I am very supportive and encouraging to my sons, I rarely if ever get upset at them over anything sport related, unless it has to do with the effort/work ethic portion of the sport. If they are involved in a sport, I expect they go in and put in a good effort when on the ice. They both love hockey and I love watching/coaching them. But as a parent, I also see the craziness of the hockey world I am sure we all see. The parents who are spending $50,000 dollars plus, remortgaging houses, taking on second jobs etc etc all to give little Johnny the chance to go to an academy or to play for that elite spring/summer team. For me, I grew up fairly poor, always used hand-me down equipment and played most of my hockey on outdoor rinks until PeeWee. I just find, as a parent it hard for me to want to push my kid and invest in extra opportunities when the chance of them actually making it to a CHL league is about 1%.
As a coach:
- I am amazed at how ridiculous some parents are in regards to their children and this sport. We all see it, but the impatient parent who thinks little Johnny needs to be on the first line and play with only certain players at a young age is ridiculous. As a coach I have been pressured and demanded of by multiple parents to give their child only top tier minutes and opportunities because thats what they believe their child needs to have. I get wanting success for your child, but calling/emailing/cornering volunteer coaches is wild. But when these parents are spending $10,000 a year to play minor hockey, rec hockey, development camps, extended season, spring AAA and more, they are desperate.
These parents are simply ruining hockey for everyone:
1. They make coaching unbearable
2. They ruin their childs desire to play.
3. They make the rink/trips/parent gatherings awkward
4. They are willing to shell out absurd amounts of cash therefore creating the demand for WILD costing academies and programs.
5. They've created the fact that only the rich/pretend rich people can be successful in this sport.
Again....I really don't know if I want my kid to play hockey at a high level with how crappy it is to try and make it there.
Sorry for the rant.
Just a bit of background, I grew up playing and loving the sport of Hockey in rural Canada, watching HNIC every Saturday night, Rock Em Sock Em videos and made it to the CHL playing in the WHL. Now I have two sons who are both playing hockey and love the sport. I coach, ref and am a part of hockey development in my area.
But with all of it, I am having a hard time finding a silver lining and seeing what hockey has become in this country.
As a parents:
- I am very supportive and encouraging to my sons, I rarely if ever get upset at them over anything sport related, unless it has to do with the effort/work ethic portion of the sport. If they are involved in a sport, I expect they go in and put in a good effort when on the ice. They both love hockey and I love watching/coaching them. But as a parent, I also see the craziness of the hockey world I am sure we all see. The parents who are spending $50,000 dollars plus, remortgaging houses, taking on second jobs etc etc all to give little Johnny the chance to go to an academy or to play for that elite spring/summer team. For me, I grew up fairly poor, always used hand-me down equipment and played most of my hockey on outdoor rinks until PeeWee. I just find, as a parent it hard for me to want to push my kid and invest in extra opportunities when the chance of them actually making it to a CHL league is about 1%.
As a coach:
- I am amazed at how ridiculous some parents are in regards to their children and this sport. We all see it, but the impatient parent who thinks little Johnny needs to be on the first line and play with only certain players at a young age is ridiculous. As a coach I have been pressured and demanded of by multiple parents to give their child only top tier minutes and opportunities because thats what they believe their child needs to have. I get wanting success for your child, but calling/emailing/cornering volunteer coaches is wild. But when these parents are spending $10,000 a year to play minor hockey, rec hockey, development camps, extended season, spring AAA and more, they are desperate.
These parents are simply ruining hockey for everyone:
1. They make coaching unbearable
2. They ruin their childs desire to play.
3. They make the rink/trips/parent gatherings awkward
4. They are willing to shell out absurd amounts of cash therefore creating the demand for WILD costing academies and programs.
5. They've created the fact that only the rich/pretend rich people can be successful in this sport.
Again....I really don't know if I want my kid to play hockey at a high level with how crappy it is to try and make it there.
Sorry for the rant.