Really don't know if you guys care to hear an outsider's perspective, but I'll give you mine.
I guess it's not my place to say whether a person should or should not be tossing a $200 jersey on the ice. That's their choice. My main problem with it is it feels disrespectful to the organization, as a whole. I get the Oilers have had a long struggle and fans are frustrated, and deserve to be, but tossing a jersey on the ice must not feel very good to past players, let alone the ones currently on the ice. It seems insulting to current AND past coaches, management, players, fans...just everyone. I don't think anyone's about to say Edmonton has bad hockey fans because of these few incidences, but it sure reminds you there's a few dickheads in every fanbase. If you're a fan, you're with the team no matter what. I grew up a Bruins fan, starting in the mid 90's. Fans went through a long stretch of irrelevance and force-fed crap from management then too. But, you know what, it made becoming a good team all that much nicer. Even though it sucked, I certainly took something out of the losing years as a fan. And, when EDM does finally get better and make the PO's (which, someday, they will), it will be all that much sweeter.
I get showing a reasonable level of dissatisfaction, but jersey throwing seems over the top insulting and disrespectful.