for that inbetween stage before full flow happens you need to work on your wings, when you get out of the shower pat your hair dry a little then toss on the hat. the wings will form infront of and behind your ears. i have heard of guys blow drying them to make them curl up, i think that is like scoring empty net goals but you have to do what you have to do. approx 3-4 months and your wings will not work anymore, they will flop down or look extensive. dont get discouraged though, because her comes the best part, its like a cattepillar going into a coccun, you take off the coccuun hat and you have beautiful butterfly esque flow. be careful though because you will have to get used to girls begging to run their fingers through it, jealous bald haters trying to disrespect it. it will get caught in your helmet from time to time and get in your eyes when you get rocked, but damn it looks good.