Canucks paying for ref training, if that isn't an ironic slap in the face for the refs.
I was actually thinking that when I wrote it...but really you do whatever you need to, probably a poor example.
My take is that in life, you gain respect by standing up for yourself, not sucking up. If the Canucks take a stand against being unfairly treated by the refs, yes, their may be some short term pain but in the long run they'll gain the respect of the refs back. It's human nature.
This isn't something where one approach works every time. A lot of time, personalities and even more importantly leverage are what's important.
You show respect when you don't have leverage and stand up for yourself when you do.
In this scenario, the Canucks have no leverage at all. Burrows stood up for himself by complaining to the media after instigating a situation (he dove, and got busted for it). His complaining ruined a veteran referees career and I'm sure a lot of other referees aren't happy seeing someone get fired because of Burrows complained to the media.
Now you are suggesting that we be too proud to basically say we're sorry (without actually saying we're sorry because it's too late for that).
I'm pretty sure that if I was a ref, I wouldn't feel inclined to give the Canucks any of the 50/50 calls given what's happened, I'd have too much loyalty to my buddy who they got fired. That's human nature (and quite frankly I'd expect that in any walk of life). Re-building the team's relationship with the referees is a process and it's certainly in the Canucks interest to pursue that process aggressively.