You are eating less than 1000 calories and not losing weight? What is your height and current weight? BTW, eating 1000 calories and less can be dangerous if not followed by a professional dietitian.
He needs to eat more and to fix his metabolism before he does anything else.
IMO, until you track your caloric intake, it's hard to draw conclusions. As you said, some fruits can be quite caloric. Yes, they're "good" food but they have to fit your macros. I don't really buy into the good vs. bad foods. You can load up on junk food, respect your calories and you'll drop weight if you're in a caloric deficit. Same way you can eat a bunch of good stuff like avocados, bananas and what have you and still end up gaining a bunch of weight. "Good" foods like fruits, vegetables and untransformed foods are good because they have a lot more vitamins and minerals. Sugar is sugar in the end. Whether you eat transformed sugar or strawberries, once they're in your blood they're both glucose. However, strawberries will give you vitamins and minerals that transformed sugars won't.
I'm currently on a caloric deficit and a high protein diet definitely works best for me. Also, if you read studies on the subject you'll often find that a critique of many studies is that they don't control for protein intake making some diets better than others.
There are massive differences between strawberries and sugar, as it's not the case that "sugar is sugar". The strawberry contains 4 grams of fiber for every 10 grams of sugar, and it's now well measured that the body responds differently to sugar+fiber than it does to sugar alone.
Within nature, fructose always comes with fiber, with the exception of honey. The fiber means that your body will take longer to digest the sugar, your gut will be healthier, your mood will be better, you will have a lower appetite, more energy, etc. It also modifies your liver's cholesterol production.
Strawberries also contain protein. If you ate 2,500 calories/day of strawberries, you'd get 55 grams of protein/day. That's actually the RDA of sedentary people. It's not good enough for bodybuilders, but it's great for everyone else.
I'm totally behind overweight people showing they can change by moving from an "unhealthy" lifestyle to a more "healthy" one. What I dislike is normalizing obesity. I hear this more and more: "I don't want to lose weight, I just want to eat healthy and be healthy". I think, in some ways, it sends the wrong message.
Also, I know it's about influencers and not so much who's healthy and whatnot but I can't get behind guys like Eddie Hall on there either. The guy's been on steroids since his teens and struggles with every part of his life because of that.
There's also the case of the internet celebrity Zyzz. He was an example that people pointed to, of body transformation. He died of heart failure.
How often do I hear "oh sarms are harmless"
It is completely unknown if those drugs are harmless, they're mostly poorly researched.
Have you guys looked at the 100 most influential fitness personalities ?
They literally have Dj Khaled between Symeon Panda and Serena Williams
What da phoque.
They also have Oprah and Sharon Salzberg just a few spots behind Brian Shaw, Froning and Fraser.
How ridiculous can you get
Oprah is one of the world's most influential people