Try to rationalize that behavior if you want to, but Dillon is the only one who doesn't make a legal play there. I don't necessarily like the way defensemen can challenge a forechecker after a dump in the NHL, but that's hardly "taking a run" at anybody. If Dillon wants to play hard all the way to the end of the game (and he appeared to be one of the only ones who was), why shouldn't Bowey? If he doesn't make the legal play available to him then, Bowey probably has to eat a pretty mean check in the corner tying that puck up.
There's no real reason to be charging in on a last second dump to the corners unless you're trying to prove something. Robbed of that last legal opportunity, Dillon threw a tantrum instead like the weasel he apparently is.
Just because a penalty isn't assessed doesn't mean that the play was legal. That kind of argument is bogus. It always has been. It always will be. Quite simply, you're making a contradictory argument when you sit there and say that Dillon is playing hard but Bowey wasn't yet still say Dillon's the only one that did. That hit was late and high and those penalties are always a matter of opinion. Bowey doesn't have to eat anything because in that stage of the game he's not required to go into fetch the puck. For every garbage insult you want to throw at a Sharks player, there's a Cap player guilty of that same crap throughout the course of the game so stop pretending like you and your team are above the whole thing. They very clearly are not.