"Definitely an instigator given the amount of time Wilson was challenging and grabbing on and in response to the hit from before. You damn right it should have been an instigator. Just because they eventually agreed and/or removed their helmets doesn't mean an instigator shouldn't have been called. Wilson's shift that entire time was meant to do one thing and it was to respond to the Oshie hit. It should've been called if they were actually using a standard for the damn penalty. If that's not an instigator, they might as well get rid of the damn thing because it's meaningless."
Your homer goggles are all fogged up.
No way is that an instigator penalty. Thornton, too his credit, stood up and answered for the questionable hit. In slow-mo the hit looked worse than it was at live speed, but that's always the case.
The refs didn't lose control of the game, nor did they cost the Sharks the game.
The BS by Dillon was the worse thing that happened during the whole game, including Thronton's hit and the Wilson'Thornton fight.