I wasn't going to reply to you any further, but let's make a quick list of things that you've compared to harmlessly celebrating a goal.
1. Running a goalie.
2. Physically removing an opponent's equipment in the middle of a game.
Furthermore, despite me having just called Tom Wilson an absolute moron in his suspension thread, the differences in the two confrontations are amazingly clear. The gloves of both players in the Wilson-Coburn tilt were off prior to the first punch we see land and they were squared up with each other immediately.
Wilson didn't rush in and start face punching someone who was, for all intents and purposes, defenseless. Isn't that what everyone dislikes Wilson for? His predatory behavior toward defenseless players when he hits? So there's an issue with me not liking the same sort of behavior when it comes to fights? Got it.
You're less coherent the more you post.
NOT celebrating a goal, celebrating a goal in a settled game late in the third are TWO different things. if the game was 2-2 when eller scored and he does exactly what he did there no one says peep. but it wasn't 2-2 it was 6-0 when eller scored.
And when wilson say an opponent take a jersey off his teamated and toss it, he viewed it as disrespectful to the TEAM and very much wanted to settle accounts. Brad marchand went through the same thing. he took offense to an action he viewed as an opponent choosing to try and show him and his teamates up.
now its one thing to say that you don't think that what eller did was bad enough to warrant having to fight. A fine opinion. but it wasn't marchand's and he doesnt give a crap about what you think warrants a fight. He's a team leader, probably their best player last year and a little guy who punched up and got the better of lars. The B's didnt send Chara or Miller out there, they sent the little guy.
the rules are clear, if someone is pushing the issue you have but two choices, drop them or turtle. the idea that if you don't engage you are protected ( the orpik conjecture) has been shown to be faulty.