I went and read TRC calls to action like Alpha suggested. No reason we can't follow through on those.
One of the things I've found valuable about the TRC Calls to Action, is that we can actually measure and see progress happening. Much like how visual signs of progress are extremely valuable in motivating for continuing with changes like weight loss, sobriety, ending debt(*), and so forth. We can see that, while change is slow doing it the "white moderate" way, it's still happening.
(yes, I know, I copy/pasted from my message I sent to a few of you
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Consider points 13-17 in the TRC Calls to Action. We now have more concerted efforts in society to preserve Indigenous languages. We now have post-secondary degrees in Indigenous languages . We now have a Commissioner for Indigenous Languages (Ronald Ignace). All of these are changes done in harmony; between you and me, between the Crown and Indigenous nations.
True North's work to bring sports to First Nations youths, far from being empty lip service, is one of many examples directly in line with points 87-91. Our prioritizing First Nations with COVID vaccines is a recent and VERY significant case directly in line with point 18. The federal government has dedicated significant money and resources to honoring Jordan's Principle (point 3). Children are now being given more direct education on Canada's history (in full candor) with Indigenous nations, from land acknowledgement announcements to truth about residential schools (points 62-65). And so forth.
Of course, this is not me saying the work is done, or even mostly done. It's simply a proof-of-concept that it can happen this way, and is happening this way. So let's keep on keeping on!
I find the hand prints and we were children graffiti moving. Its a much better way to protest without burning churches or damaging statues.
Something has really stuck with me I the last few weeks. I heard someone speaking about how they didn't even notify parents their child had died. Imagine that you wait and wait for child to come home and they dont show up ! Neighbors kid tells you they died. Makes me want to cry. That is pure @#$%ing cruelty.
We need to work harder on this and all racism.
Your example is a good one because it shows and emphasizes our common humanity. Whatever your culture, it is universally understood as a horrific and unnatural thing for a parent to bury their child, when it's absolutely goddamned supposed to be the other way around. Now, top that off with the uncertainty and the callousness and the depravity of it all? No one could (or at least, should) possibly be unmoved to accept and acknowledge what an unequivocal wrong this was.
* - (I suppose I told on myself, if those are the first three examples to pop into my head
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