oh we know how to keep the peace
All of our wives are AOK, I`ve heard stories from people about their partners not being overly thrilled with their spouse hitting the links but again, this group of guys aren`t a group who are all playing 3 times a week, most are lucky if they are able to get out 3 times a month with work/family obligations
I have typically organized an XMas brunch at whatever restaurant I was currently managing which we used as our "thanks" to the wives but I`m no longer in that business and this seemed like a good time to do it. There`s about a 20 who are able to attend and they`ll be doing lunch and shopping in Mahone Bay while were golfing and fly down the highway for some BBQ and cake for one of the wives who is celebrating her birthday.
As you mentioned, no fun to play I imagine if you have the stress of knowing your spouse isn`t terribly thrilled your on the course