I was in a relationship 6 years ago that was already on the rocks and I met a woman that was perfect for me. I really considered ending the relationship I was in. When the relationship finally did end about 6 months later she had moved to Texas. Can't make this **** up.
Stuff like this is so typical.
I was in a 5+ year relationship when I was 20-25. I remember really crushing on my friend’s sister, who didn’t even live in the same state. I flirted with her a little when she visited, which was literally a week or two before the relationship ended. I think I knew the relationship was on life support and it’s deathbed, as I got really hung up on my friend’s sister, which wouldn’t have happened months earlier. I hypothetically thought to myself “if she invited me to her hotel room, I’d totally go and I think I would cheat my girl with her”. My girlfriend breaks up with me a week or two later. Nothing ever happened with the friend’s sister at all, but I immediately felt guilt for thinking of it after she broke up with me. I literally cried myself to sleep over my hypothetical betrayal and contemplation of cheating.
Right around that time, a mutual friend of ours got with the friend’s sister, who wound up confessing to both her brother and then our friend who she did get with, that she loved talking to me, loved how confident I was in talking to her and that I had been single, she would have invited me to her hotel. And this was literally without me ever telling anyone about the hypothetical hotel room situation.
She told them that she had the hots for me, but knew that I had girlfriend, so she held off on inviting me.
If she would have came a week or two later....
I’m still sitting here waiting for that opportunity....
