That would probably be a little overboard, but until you reffed.....
Yep. I reffed from age 14-20 and it runs the gamut on what you experience. Hockey coaches and parents can be absolutely inhuman sometimes. You just have to take it with a grain of salt.
My two most memorable experiences were:
1) stopping an Atom (maybe ages 9/10) game mid-play to turn around to the bench and give an unsportsmanlike penalty to the coach - who was also my next door neighbor.
2) having to handle a bench-clearing brawl between two teams, one of which was guys from my high school and most of whom were my good friends (while we were the same grade, I was 1 year behind in hockey because I skipped the 2nd grade). I was a last-minute replacement linesman because the other guy was sick or something. Probably shouldn't have a 15 year old reffing 16/17 year olds.
That brawl was amazing. One of my best friends had been kicked out of the game earlier, and came back on the ice in street clothes. I was basically pleading with him "Bryan could you please just get off the ice....."
I'll never forget the image of another guy kicking the helmet of a guy who was lying on the ice. Kicking him in the head. Truly amazing.