I don't particularly "like" defense-first hockey either, but this team is nowhere near the 1995 Devils when it comes to boring, league-destroying defensive play.
As for tonight's game, an(other) absolutely shameful showing by the refs. I reiterate my complaint about there being not incentive for them to actually perform their jobs appropriately. If a player coughs up a puck at the blue line leading to an opposing goal, he might not play for a week; if a ref swallows his whistle for a whole game, allowing all manner of interference, and then magically decides to call a forechecker with a momentum-threatening phantom crosscheck with five minutes left in the game.... he's probably out the next night calling another ****** game.