I got a sad sinking feeling when I heard the news. I make my share of jokes out here and like to goof around. This goes way beyond hockey.
Addiction is a matter of life and death. I've been sober almost 28 years. I've carried a bunch of good people out of churches in boxes
For an addict, nothing else matters when the drug, drink, bet, porn site, etc has that stranglehold on you. We don't love our wives and kids and jobs any less--we just can't stop even if we want to
Yes there is a certain responsibility on the user but until I entered a 12 step recovery program, I wasn't capable of taking the action necessary to stay sober
If you want a drink, or whatever, have one, if you NEED one, get help. We can't do it alone. As a recovering alcoholic, I suggest this guy and anyone else struggling need prayer.