Tokyo Story (1953) dir. Yasujiro Ozu
An elderly couple leaves their comparatively small town, and their youngest daughter, to go to Tokyo and meet their oldest son and daughter for the first time in many years. In Tokyo also lives Noriko, the widow of their youngest son, who died in the war. The kids Shige and Koichi, have their own families and businesses, and would prefer to not spend more time or money than necessary entertaining their parents, although they are not without good intentions, there are just things that are being prioritized more. So Noriko is tasked with showing the parents around Tokyo. A task she gladly accepts, willingly offering her own time and money to be with them, and make sure they have a good time.
It is easy to get a bit angry at Shige and Koichi, and their seeming lack of compassion, like Kyoko does at the end. When you've seen them discuss how it will be much cheaper to send the parents to a spa on their own, than entertain them in the city. And how Shige starts dividing up the loot at the wake, before she and Koichi seemingly leaves as fast as possible. Noriko delivers a very good speech to Kyoko, about how life changes as you move away from your parents, and start to form a life and family on your own, and how your priorities start to change when this happens. Noriko is probably a bit too nice on her brother-in-law and sister-in-law, since Shige could do with a bit of tact, and Koichi seems to suffer from a lack of priorities in regards to his kids, who are as unable to get his attention as his parents are. That being said, there is also a lot of truth in what Noriko says. You do grow a lot less dependant on your parents once you move away from them, and especially in a scenario like this, where they live a days journey away from each other, in a time without the easy communication tools we have today. Over time with little communication, the lack of dependence, could lead to a lack caring in some way, like we see here. Noriko is willing to spend a lot more time and money on the parents, despite not being their child, or having spend a lot of time with them in the past. She claims to not be a better person, but just a person in the right circumstance, I don't entirely agree with that sentiment, but it is interesting point of view to take. As I mentioned earlier, I tried watching this movie for the first time in High School, while I was still living with my parent. Probably the worst time to try and watch this movie. After you move away from home and live on your own, you get a very different perspective on what this movie is about. A perspective I assume changes as you start a family of your own, and at last are the one to visit your kids and their family.
Tokyo Story is likely to be considered slow in some regards. The story isn't exactly big on action, and is composed mainly of gentle conversation. On top of that the camera barely moves, if it moves at all. Time inside the film still moves at a fair pace, and gives the film a good rhythm, that makes time outside the movie pass by fast as well. Despite the camera not really moving, most shots are surprisingly dynamic. Many sets are very shallow, and doesn't allow much movement lengthwise, but the sets are very deep, and most of the movement seem to take place in that direction, and there is often some movement happening all the time. The camera is often placed very low, almost on the floor. Something I don't think I've seen before, perhaps outside of Cafe Lumiere where I seem to recall similar shots, but I think that was an Ozu homage, so perhaps it is not so strange after all. The low camera works very well, since the Japanese traditionally sit on the floor, and the camera brings you at eye level with them in that situation.
Tokyo Story is a very touching movie, and one of the very best I have ever seen. I think this is a movie that can be enjoyed by almost everyone, once they reach a certain point in their lives. The story is very universal, despite it of course being based on Japan from 60 years ago. It certainly made me think about, and evaluate my relationship to my own family.