Let's face it. Vancouver was overwhelmed by the physicality/will of Calgary which clearly trumped any skill advantage that the Canucks may have had. Even a guy like Bennett showed a will that was absent from Vancouver. The only guy who was comparable in that category was Horvat. For whatever reason, the Canucks have developed a losing attitude - which is characterized by a lack of will to win. So, yeah, I agree.
This is a very simplistic and untrue narrative of why we lost.
It's not that we have skill, it's that we have very _little_ skill outside of maybe four-five guys (Sedins, Horvat, Edler, Tanev.)
In fact, in the first two games the Canucks were setting the tone physically. Once the refs started calling penalties on Vancouver, they backed off. I think the leaders (Sedins, Edler) don't like to be the guys that put their team in a hole if they make a decision to slash/check.
We all know Edler is physical. Remember last year after finishing his check and getting a suspension, it took him 6 months to have the confidence to start finishing checks again?
I don't know what the solution is, maybe just a whole army of bottom 6 shot blockers if we assume we're going to get at least 8 PK's a game ... then the rest of the team can just hit with impunity.