I'm thinking similarly. I see a lot less controversy in these statements, because of what you mentioned above.
Over the duration of PDBs tenure here, it's definitely seemed like he has an open dialogue with his assistants. More than you hear from most teams. Could be different behind the scenes, of course. Hard to tell with access to assistance coaches shut down.
You think about Stevens, though, and he went through the majority of his hockey life being THE guy. It could all boil down to him just not being comfortable taking on a more subdued role.
And as someone mentioned, who knows for sure if his ideas were for better or worse. We'll find out if he decides to take on a HC position elsewhere in the hockey world.