Today marked the 10th anniversary of Wade Belak’s death.
I carried his No. 3 on a black sash over my Twitter profile picture for many years only taking it down in the last couple of years.
Got the pleasure of talking with him a few times and even got a response when I e-mailed him after in his third game here he contorted his body so far down to catch David Perron in the shoulder while skating with his head down in a completely hard, but clean hit, and had to drop the gloves and fight as a result.
That was his role, but many of those guys grew up playing the game at the highest level of their skill group until they made it to juniors and the coach tabbed them to be an enforcer. He made the hit, didn’t follow through, and was concerned for Perron - who only had his breath knocked out - only to have to suddenly drop the gloves for a half hearted fight.
Perron was young and didn’t grow out of that habit for a few years, but it upset me that Belak went to all of that effort to make a clean play and the result was the same as if he hadn’t. There was no winning at that stage of Wade’s career playing the game and that’s what really got to me.
Miss his personality, smile, and laughter. Sad to know his children are growing up without him.
Hug your loved ones a little tighter and if you are feeling down, reach out and know you matter!!!