I've always been skeptical of this as well, especially on an individual player level.
If you look at the last 6 years combined sorted by descending PDO you see a fairly good representation of the higher levels of talent in the league.
http://stats.hockeyanalysis.com/rat...000&teamid=0&type=goals&sort=PDO&sortdir=DESC
Crosby, Gaborik, the Sedins, Semin, Burrows, Ryan, Thornton, Datsyuk, Ovechkin, Kunitz, Stamkos all in the top 20. Those guys are either elite or played with elite players (Kunitz and Burrows)
Granted the bottom has some surprising names there (Karlsson is the one the really jumped out to me), but given the percentage of elite players that occupy the higher ends of the list, it seems reasonable to conclude that good players *can* maintain a higher than 1000 PDO.
Clearly, like you said, extreme values are a measure of luck (for example Lupul at 1107 last year or Kadri at 1078) but I don't think I've seen enough proof to support the claim that PDO will always regress towards 1000 on a player or team level.