I get it but... when it's life and death you do anything in your power to stay alive. 17 other people who pledged to donate followed through with their donations so 17 people other than Melnyk got a liver quicker because of him. And that 18th person is now #1 on the waiting list. It's my understanding that Canadian laws make it so you can't "buy" an organ, he was high up on the waiting list because his situation was severe, he had only weeks to live. I'm not sure if that is true or not, but that's my understanding. I'm happy that Mr. Melnyk is recovering, and I'm sure the 17 other people are grateful for his public appeal. Plus I learnt some knowledge about liver donation, I had no idea that if I were to donate that they would only have to take part of my liver and that it would grow back. Now I am more likely to donate in the future. All in all I don't think what Mr. Melnyk did was wrong, just desperate. He had a platform to make an appeal and he used it, just like any of us would given the circumstances.
You're pretty bang on with the waiting list thing. Took me close to 2 years just to get on the waiting list because of all the tests, doctor's appointments, more tests, booster shots...and on and on. 31/2 years after beginning the journey, they called me to be a backup in case the person they had above me didn't pan out with the donor. a month later I was called in. (Hoping to hell that MY final test would work out.)
Thankfully it did and I have to thank the parents of the kid who is younger than my daughter for donating his pancreas, kidney's (2 people), lungs, heart, liver, eye's...every organ you can think of to save myself and probably about a dozen others.
It's heavy and I'm thankful. I really hope I can manage to meet these folks.
EDIT: This info wasn't told to me by any doctor's specifically...just conversations I've had with them and putting 1 and 2 together...along with information from other sources that are close to me...it's really conjecture with some facts thrown in that I shouldn't be aware of, but am.