CornKicker
Holland is wrong..except all of the good things
- Feb 18, 2005
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I hate the adage of "everyone just have fun, its all about everyone enjoying themselves, blah blah blah."
Sports is sports and I'm sick of the "no child left behind" crap. The entire reason for sports is to compete and win and regardless of the level, that is still the purpose. Otherwise, why have a winner and loser, just let the kids go out and play pickup. Kids need to learn this and because everyone is scared of hurting feelings these days, kids dont learn how to take loss and disappointment later in life, in school in anything. They continue to think they just deserve it.
However, there is no reason to go out of your way to put a kid down or make them feel bad.
I dont see a problem with it if, like another poster said, the tone of it was not harsh or demeaning. I coached several teams when I was younger and, if done right, the intensity of the sport can be passed on to the kids in the right way, regardless of the level of play. Hell, many house players are just as intense and want to win, they just werent good enough to make the travel team. But many wish they did and would appreciate being treated similar.
Just cause you're always trying hard doesnt mean you dont make silly mistakes. If the kid did something he knows was wrong and a silly mistake, I dont see an issue with that statement if said in a positive tone.
i agree with this so much it makes me mad. Sports/Competition in general is designed to encourage hard work and determination. It is a means to teach teamwork and collectively working as one for a common goal. you know, all the things kids need to succeed in the real working world long after hockey is over? the whole everyone wins BS is just enabling people/parents to allow their kids to be selfish and lazy etc because they are going to get the end result anyway. Its so sad to see it in sport.