If I want good, authentic wings, I just make them myself. Grew up near Buffalo, so, I've been eating them basically my entire life. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ While being a somewhat messy operation, they're fairly easy to make: fry up some large, meaty wings (with no coating) in some peanut oil & toss them in Frank's Red Hot & melted butter. Add minced garlic to the sauce, to your liking.
If we don't feel like making them, believe it or not, Assaggio's in Fuquay-Varina does them pretty well. The first time we had them there, the owner (who I know), asked me for input. Told him what changes he needed to make & since then, they're pretty spot on.