Being full of piss and vinegar is understandable when you are young. But you're not young anymore. Time to grow up.
To be fair, I don't think you can just say "this team is soft" in re: why we're 0-2-1. The team is simply getting outplayed and outskilled. I don't see a lack of battle / "showing belly" as even in the top 5 of reasons why we are a bad team this year, or even a bad team thru three games.
1. We have played 3 teams that are either cup winners or serious contenders in the past 3 seasons.
2. In contrast, we have about one 2nd line and 3 bottom 6 lines. We have about 1-2 top line forwards on the whole roster.
3. Even worse, we have about 1-2 middle pairing D-men at best (zero top-pairing D men), and 5-6 bottom pairing D-men.
4. We have a reclamation project goalie who is playing very well but can't be expected to hold back a 2 or 3 to 1 shot advantage... he did steal us one point off the cup favorite Avs.
5. This team, being a collection of underskilled misfits, has also never played together, while we've played 3 teams that have not only been serious contenders recently, but have very well defined and established successful systems, so that any roster turnover is easily absorbed.
I honestly think this team has outperformed my expectations thru three games and grit/soft/etc has nothing to do with the record.