Bob Probert showed up at Brantford Alexanders training camp with willing fists and a heavy heart.
The year was 1982. Probert’s father had just died of a heart attack.
“Bob came in under tough circumstances,” said Waterloo’s Todd Francis, Probert’s former Alexanders linemate, as he drove to Windsor on Wednesday to attend visitation of the late NHL enforcer.
Francis, another Brantford rookie in 1982, befriended Probert immediately.
The two burly wingers, both 17, became close pals. They were kindred spirits.
“We weren’t the type of guys to cry over spilled milk,” said Francis, who was shocked to find out Probert died suddenly on a Lake St. Clair boating excursion with his family on Monday afternoon.
“We never said, ‘Oh, my life. Oh, my life.’ Bob just took things in stride. Whatever life dealt, he dealt with it. I was kind of the same way. We came from the same kind of backgrounds. That’s what kind of attracted us to each other.”
Francis and Probert chummed around. They drove to practice together. They had the same agent. They got drafted into the NHL — Probert to Detroit and Francis to Montreal — the same year. They had a lot in common.
“His dad died and my parents were divorced and separated when I was younger,” said Francis, who finished his hockey career in the minors while Probert became hockey’s premier pugilist with hands soft enough to score 29 goals one season in Detroit.
“We were both kind of raised by single moms. It was unspoken between us. We didn’t dwell on the bad things. I guess that’s why we were close and tight.”
The next season, they were linemates.
Francis, now a community centre manager in Oakville, scored 13 goals on the right wing. Probert, whose off-ice struggles involved drugs and alcohol, scored 35 on the right side. In the middle? Future NHLer Shayne Corson had 25 goals.
Together, the trio racked up a combined 467 penalty minutes.
Both wingers got traded the next season. Probert landed in the Soo. Francis went to Oshawa via Hamilton.
Francis said they kept in touch over the years and was grateful to see that Probert, a father of four, had gotten his life straightened out through his involvement in charities and the NHL player’s association. Probert even appeared on a TV show, tackling figure skating with other retired hockey stars. His funeral is Friday.
Francis last spoke to Probert a year and a half ago, when he was in Brantford for an oldtimers game.
On Wednesday, Francis drove to Windsor to say goodbye.
“He was a big teddy bear off the ice,” Francis said. “He wouldn’t hurt a fly.”