It's the idea that missing out on potentially getting a mid round pick, at best, several years after the fact is so worthy of repeating over and over year after year is what's humorous.
Because Fletcher continues to do the same damn thing. If it wasn't Nolan, it was Brunette and Mitts. It was Cullen (though admittedly we didn't have the depth but that was on Fletcher and how he built the team). It was Kobasew. Furthermore, Fletcher's drafting was supposed to be one of his strengths coming into the organization, so a mid-round pick could have potentially given this team some depth. Either Fletcher suck at drafting or he doesn't know how to build a roster.
I would say that in and of itself is a pretty large difference. Not to mention what Doan has done for hockey in the state of Arizona and how he has represented them for years and years through thick and thin. Nolan never had a history with the Wild to establish himself as someone worth worrying about several years after the fact that he left and retired.
Both Nolan and Doan were veterans. Both clubs asked respectively if they want to be traded. Both declined. In the sense of Doan, it makes more sense. In the sense of Nolan, it doesn't as for your reasons here. Ultimately though, both clubs respected the wishes of long time veterans. It actually makes more sense that Doan didn't want to be traded than Nolan. Hence why not moving Doan is the same as Nolan. Both of them are veteran players, both organizations asked if they could be traded, both declined.
It isn't. Except we hadn't exactly declared a full-fledged rebuild, as they seem to have. Also, I think Doan could currently bring in a better return than what Nolan would've (say, a 2nd and B prospect vs. 4th or 5th rounder). Unless my memory is failing me and there was a bigger market for him than what I remember.
Nolan had a bit of a market. We weren't rebuilding but we were retooling. A guy like Nolan could have brought in probably a 2nd rounder or 3rd simply because of who he was. At any point, there was a market for Nolan because of him being a veteran.