I like Lindros.
Sport, however, is a little different from the normal working world. I'm not going to dispute anything about concussions, as I'd like to live a long and healthy life.
There's two things about being drafted by a team and not wanting to play for them though.
1. It is an honour to go first overall. And sports heroes, as we fans see it, should welcome the challenge of going to a weak team and eventually bringing it to the Promiseland - like say Mario Lemieux did (probably saving the Penguins franchise in the process). Instead of being Quebec's hero, Lindros villainized himself in the public's eye. Ray Bourque is another example of how we think an athlete should act. For years, he languished on a Bruins club that for the most part, had no real shot at winning the Cup. He remained loyal and never complained. Late in his career, management rewarded him by sending him to the mighty Avs - and he finally won the Cup. Even non-Avalanche fans and non-Ray Bourque fans were happy for him. You're right in saying that people should have a right to choose their employer, but star athletes are looked on as icons and heroes, and may be judged more harshly (or even unfairly) by the public.
2. The way it was done might also have something to do with it. Maybe if it was his decision alone, and he was able to give good reasons for not wanting to play there, it might not have been so bad. As it stands, it looks like his parents were meddling too much in his affairs, so he wasn't man enough to make his own decisions. This may only have been a perception (I was not with the Lindros family when they were discussing this), but it's certainly how it was portrayed by the media.