Living in Ottawa it took me until after the Gilmour era ended in Toronto... Or at least after the 1994 playoffs to really not be a Leafs fan and be a full-on Senators fan. After all the terrible Leafs teams of the 80's I cheered for, actually having a legit contender, and the great Gilmour... A terrible expansion team did not take hold in my fan conciousness for a few seasons. And I didn't start hating the Leafs until Pat Quinn and the first playoff loss the Senators had to the Leafs.
Now as a Sens fan... I don't even really hate the Leafs. I actually kind of like most of the teams in the Senators division. Though I cheer for the Senators completely. Lots of likeable teams. Hope that the Leafs turn it around and become a decent team to have a rivalry again.
I think, in hindsight, I hated Quinn most of all, and Domi, Tucker, Corson... More then actually hating the Leafs. Since then I really have not hated any team or player much... Except Chris Pronger. But I used to really hate the Leafs back in the late 90's early 00's. Now I feel sorry for their fans... And even their players. Like Kessel. I mean he got so much flack for actually doing his job well as a scoring winger. You would think he was a child murderer. I do hate the Toronto media. They are hot garbage. And HNIC hires a total hack to be part of their broadcast? Really? All the guys to choose from and they pick a hack tabloid writer who knows crap about hockey?.... And just writes offensive things for attention? I don't care if Cherry talks about the Leafs too much... Or other things that come from the Leafs being the most popular team in the country... But Damian Cox? Yeah... That is a symbol why the Leafs nation gets hate. The whole country gets hacks that talk about petty unimportant Leafs crap while other teams actually do interesting things on the ice. And we hear about Kessel being fat or eating hot dogs, or Kadri missing practice. Not just in Toronto but everywhere in the country. It is like a Thansgiving dinner where a drunk boring uncle never shuts up. It gets pretty annoying... The noise. The endless useless banter about nothing from the Leafs nation. That every hockey fan is subject to in Canada. On every broadcast. In every paper, on all the TSN, Sportsnet websites, on HF.
I hope and wish the Leafs to become elite soon... So the endless Leafs talk might actually be interesting and matter to average hockey fans that aren't members of Leafs Nation.