There is some truth to that. Although I think the Jets fanbase is generally accepting of whoever is presented to them.
I follow a bit of Oilers too, and they are far more hostile than us. Although right now it's mostly hot takes. As an outsider I watch them and I agree with nearly everything Tippet does, while the locals get up in arms
Even Tampa fans were frustrated and thought Cooper was a terrible coach until they won a Cup. Now they are right back to complaining about line matchups and how he handles the x's and o's. The coaches job is to take the brunt of the hate, so the players don't have to. When really the players should be getting the hate for performing poorly.