That hit close to home. People are great at hiding their grief, but usually when a close relative dies, they're in hell emotionally. I had a very hard time at work after my dad passed, but we all must just simply move foreword, and it had a tremendous negative effect on my job. Having to fix other peoples problems seemed so friggin stupid, and it just pissed me off listening to these people bitch. Even a friend of mine, who is constantly depressed for other reasons, annoyed the shit out of me with his moping. I'm like "dude, you still have both parents; f*** off!!"
It just seems like nothing else matters when that sort of loss happens. Wish the guy the best