It was when Tyler was 13 and his brother Ryan, 15, that the costs became too much for their mom Kelly and dad, Shawn, to bear — especially with brother Patrick, still a toddler at the time, to care for.
“I was working just to pay for some of the hockey and when I had my third child I just couldn’t do it, it was too much,” said Kelly Weiss. “We just got to the point where it was too expensive.”
Kelly, a medical assistant for a hand surgeon, and Shawn, a project director at LabCorp, had to break the news to their kids that the family finances could no longer afford to pay for hockey and all the travel that went along with it.
“I came home one night and Mom said, ‘We can’t play hockey anymore, you can’t go to practice tomorrow,'” said Weiss. “My brother and I were pretty upset.”
Weiss cried.
For weeks both boys were miserable, until one day Ryan came to his mom with an idea.
“Ryan knew how stressful it was and he said, ‘Mom, if I gave up hockey would that help Tyler to keep playing? Because he’s really good,'” said Kelly. “You know I didn’t want him to give up because it wasn’t fair to him, but he said, ‘That’s what I want to do.’
“It was heartbreaking. It was really heartbreaking.”
So, Ryan quit hockey in order for Tyler to continue.