Wasn't much of a Disney fan growing up. The musical numbers just annoyed the shit outta me, and I still to this day just do not understand why people love The Little Mermaid so much. I remember working at Media Play (yes, I'm that old) and parent after parent kept asking me when it was coming out on video because Disney half-assed just threw it out into theatres because "Anastasia" had just come out and they didn't have anything to compete, so they put it out there again, and legions of dumbass parents came out in droves.
And yes, the messages in The Little Mermaid for little girls are outright horrid. Not to mention Ariel is the most useless character in film history who makes a bunch of increasingly dumb decisions that get nearly everyone else killed.
Don Bluth, who broke away from Disney in the 80s, came out with way better shit. The Secret of NIMH remains one of my very favorite animated films.
However, Frozen finally broke that mold in a lot of ways, and maybe I'm just getting old and saw how much my two nieces loved it, the songs didn't annoy me. I also love a majority of the Pixar films, my two faves being Up and Inside Out for different reasons. Their only real whiffs IMO were Brave and The Good Dinosaur (I haven't seen any of the Cars sequels).