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me reading HF
If u skim the post like I admittedly did you can def come to that conclusion lolWell, I knew this would come up. I admit that I did read it twice to realize that you weren't looking for a student-teacher relationship.
If u skim the post like I admittedly did you can def come to that conclusion lolWell, I knew this would come up. I admit that I did read it twice to realize that you weren't looking for a student-teacher relationship.
Been happily married for just Under thirty years and so has my wife as far as I can tell.
For sensitive types do not read past this point:
During intimacy make sure your wife achieves gratification first. No matter what you have to do, no matter how tired you are and no matter how many different parts of your anatomy ache follow this rule.
Happy Wife, Happy Life.
Syncharitiria!
Buona Fortuna!
Been happily married for just Under thirty years and so has my wife as far as I can tell.
For sensitive types do not read past this point:
During intimacy make sure your wife achieves gratification first. No matter what you have to do, no matter how tired you are and no matter how many different parts of your anatomy ache follow this rule.
Happy Wife, Happy Life.
Syncharitiria!
Buona Fortuna!
Yup. It happens to both sexes. The echo-chamber exists for men and for women and I think there are issues that women get more of a pass on the same as there are issues where men tend to get a pass. It's not a binary issue by any stretch and even the most well-intentioned movements can go awry now and then.
I just think the red pill movement is conditioning men to only want a certain subset of women, while they're in turn lamenting women for only wanting a certain subset of guys. I can see where they're coming from but I think too many people in that community are not only widening that gap, but they're monetizing the gap as well.
As a teacher, I am often appalled by the reading comprehension level on here. Good work, sir.
I read it initially as you trying to pick up one of your students. Bro, I like you but as a teacher you're also supposed to be aware of communication skills and being able to clearly get the message across. If more than one person read it as you wanting to pick up one of your students maybe it's your communication and not their reading comprehension.
I mean, I was an English major my first time through college and I took his actual meaning immediately and responded as such. I don’t think there was anything wrong with his communication; it may have been ambiguous but it didn’t take a big leap of logic to infer that between chatting up someone from the classes he’s taking or one of the classes he’s teaching, the more logical was the one he’s taking.
For example “she would definitely know who I am but we haven’t really interacted much” doesn’t sound like he’s her teacher.
The idea that it's the other person not getting it bothers me because I feel like whenever I don't get something my boss is explaining to me it's because it's a problem with my comprehension and not his communication. And particularly from a teacher you have to be cognizant of your communication and not blame the party that doesn't understand you.
Speaking of teacher student relations. I remember in business school my teacher of an unreasonable asshole. We had a take home test that was timed. The shared environment in which I was using the computer program in crapped out and I emailed the professor and he didn't respond till the next day. When he did he said he takes off points per some unit of time and enough time has passed that I'll get a zero. In other words he was an asshole. The next day I tried every possible avenue to fix the problem and took an Uber to school and the computer lab. I told the Uber driver this story and the Uber driver said that often women get this type of thing handled by sleeping with the professor. I thought that sounded preposterous but always wondered, what if he's not full of shit?
Speaking of teacher student relations. I remember in business school my teacher of an unreasonable asshole. We had a take home test that was timed. The shared environment in which I was using the computer program in crapped out and I emailed the professor and he didn't respond till the next day. When he did he said he takes off points per some unit of time and enough time has passed that I'll get a zero. In other words he was an asshole. The next day I tried every possible avenue to fix the problem and took an Uber to school and the computer lab. I told the Uber driver this story and the Uber driver said that often women get this type of thing handled by sleeping with the professor. I thought that sounded preposterous but always wondered, what if he's not full of shit?
Why would he be?
The truth is the world is disgusting and all the high ideals and codes of chivalry we internalize and try to live by do not go very far.
Trust me, I get it. I’m a huge nerd who grew up on Arthurian legends and Aragorn, but after being military, law enforcement and now working with investors, it’s become increasingly evident that the reality is that a large majority of people “monetize” or “weaponize” whatever assets they have. For attractive women, sex is an asset and while most don’t go the route of literally monetizing it, it is still often traded for things that they want. Look no further than the sheer number of young women who have set up only fans and private snapchats and willingly monetize their body instead of pursuing “a real job” or for extra income.
I mean in that situation I blame the professor, not the student. Or at least >50% of the blame.
Why, do you guys think I teach MA classes at 29 years old? I'm flattered.I read it initially as you trying to pick up one of your students. Bro, I like you but as a teacher you're also supposed to be aware of communication skills and being able to clearly get the message across. If more than one person read it as you wanting to pick up one of your students maybe it's your communication and not their reading comprehension.
Why, do you guys think I teach MA classes at 29 years old? I'm flattered.
I read it initially as you trying to pick up one of your students. Bro, I like you but as a teacher you're also supposed to be aware of communication skills and being able to clearly get the message across. If more than one person read it as you wanting to pick up one of your students maybe it's your communication and not their reading comprehension.
Oh like you didn't just come here to abuse me. Look at the first thing you posted.AND...We have a winner! Lol
Oh like you didn't just come here to abuse me. Look at the first thing you posted.
"Your haircut is awful" is a joke. "Your personality is awful and nobody will ever love you" is not that.The post was a joke but with a serious undertone.
Speaking about reading comprehension/ communication, I would've thought you'd have figured that out, professor..
"Your haircut is awful" is a joke. "Your personality is awful and nobody will ever love you" is not that.
I don't care, you don't have to like me, but you said what you said. Don't cop out on it.
@SnowblindNYR does have a valid point, if people misunderstood, my bad, but you showed up today just to bring it up.
You haven't participated in this thread at all other than to attack me, so maybe you should do what I did and get a job.
Your advice was "don't be you." It was a shitty comment and you went out of your way to make it and then do it again.MH.. Are you really that fragile and insecure to the point where you would actually accuse me of coming here for the sole purpose of abusing you?
I can assure you.. You don't even exist in my world unless I happen to come across one of your posts.
Further more...Even though my post was very much sent in a light and joking manor, it also includes some advice that may be in your best interest and has nothing but good intentions attached to it.
Maybe you need to lighten the f*** up already but hopefully you'll look in the mirror first..