- Oct 31, 2007
- 17,908
- 16,789
I agree with this. These are athletes, not role models -- except in instances where they behave in a way that justifies them being role models. They are just human beings with all the accompanying warts and beauty marks.I think I get it. Just like he goes to a concert to hear performers sing he doesn’t want to hear a political tirade in the middle of the set. Or go to a movie where there is some stupid token underlying message or scene about where the director stands in a particular subject that has nothing to do with the plot. He comes here to read about hockey and hockey only. Not saying he’s right or wrong but he’s entitled to his opinion without people coming to this broad conclusion on his beliefs on everything in the world.
sports fandom is ridiculous. You blast one athlete for say his views like Kovalchuk but then cheer on a guy like Corey Dillon or Tyreek Hill regardless of his past.
Big Z is a good example. He's a huge contributor to society off the ice. He's a beacon for hard work and commitment on the ice. He's a leader in creating a team environment that treats players based on how they work, not what year or age they are. He's a true leader and people can and should encourage their kids to emulate him. A lot. However even then it doesn't mean you blindly follow or emulate EVERYTHING he does -- including when he cross checks Brandon Gallagher in the face? (BTW, I was more than ok with that, just not sure I'd want to suggest to a 10 year old that that is a good idea on the school playground).
I also think we all should expect to have parts of our lives that are respites from important issues that maybe don't need to be talked about all the time. I don't care about Kovalchuk as a person. Unlike Z, he's never done anything that suggests to me he's worth paying attention to off the ice or considering his views on non hockey issues. I view him as a hockey player -- and one that I don't think fits well on this Boston team. His views on social issues are irrelevant to me, although I wish no one asked him the question. He's a hockey player -- who gives a shit what he thinks? I can think for myself.
In fact that's the lesson we should give our kids..... "No Johnny...... this hockey player is just a hockey player. His thoughts on a given subject are just his thoughts - no different from any other human. Opinions are like assholes, everybody has one. If you want to find someone to help formulate or refine your views on an issue that's important to you? Find someone who is relevant to the issue you are considering and who's demeanor and intellect you admire. Not some guy who has a wicked pissah slappah.".
It's like Hollywood stars at award shows. Whether I agree with her or not, if I need to get my cues on how to act in life from Meryl Streep then I am well and truly f***ed.