For those who have played/are playing at a decently high level: How can I overcome being soft? I mean I throw some hits (not huge ones by any means...) but I always shy away from big contact. To put it another way, the phrase "take a hit to make a play" doesn't apply to me at all. I've been wrecked my fair share of times and got up, but for some reason I always shy away. I really think this is hindering my ability to be a better player considering dangling usually never works for me. I'm a Center/Winger and average sized with a small bit of muscle if that helps at all.