Maybe when you have an empty net you shouldn't score because you prefer when players turn away from advantages like that. And I guess when your team plays the Pittsburg Penguins, you's rather see your team lose the game since a win would be too easy and you'd rather see players turn away from taking advantages like that.
They play professional hockey, they are paid for that type of stuff. You don't give love tap when you play professional. Hell you don't give love-****ing-taps when you're in the playoff even though you're 10 years old. The only time you give love taps is when you're playing for pur fun, (either with friends or with people you don't know), when you play non contact games (beer leagues and stuff) or when you practice. Maybe evcen when you're in the shower
. BUT NOT in a serious game.
Get a grip buddy, learn what real hockey is.