how do you address team toughness though? Everyone says their team needs more toughness, but how do you do that? I have zero interest in signing a low-skill player who will be limited to 6 mins of ice time per night, and go around trying to hit people and get in 15-17 fights per year. That doesnt' add any valuable toughness, in my opinion.
To me, team toughness is the culture and identity that the coaches and the organization establish. Toughness is a willingness to block shots. It's a willingness to put in the extra effort to chase loose pucks, to win battles along the boards, and to stand up for team mates when needed (which doesn't exclusively mean you need to drop the gloves if someone gets laid out). Are you, as a player, willing to go balls-out each shift because you know that each of your team mates are willing to do the same? If everyone buys in, then that's team toughness.
Adding some no-skill plugger like Ryan Reaves doesn't do jack if the team isn't prepared to be tough as a group.
edit: I remember Phil Esposito said one time that when he played, he could have hated a team mate off the ice, but on the ice, he'd skate through a wall for the guy. That's toughness. A willingness to do whatever is needed to help your team win.