I agree with both sides when it comes to this conversation. I believe in standing up for yourself immediately, however there are circumstances where individuals or groups cannot like with children, rape victims, and groups with a special rule set like the military. Specifically speaking, as a former Army officer I've seen it all and there is an outlet through EEO and other advocacy groups, however many fail to use them due to fear of being humiliated, peer pressure, career advancement, or fear of UCMJ. For example, you just cannot punch or verbally assault a superior officer or ranking NCO without having repercussions even if they were in the wrong, however there is a tactful way to respond. Alexbro makes excellent points with the Sandusky and gymnasts. In those cases, many of them were children and often takes years for them to come forward. I do agree with Ovechkintooth in there are those who use sad situations to stir the pot for whatever reason whether it's monetary gain or notoriety. Unfortunately, the cry wolf or attention seekers with false allegations keep real victims from coming forward and the result is reactive rather than proactive which never improves the problem.