I won't pretend to know the specific circumstances or how the story unfolded for Dylan and his wife. But after our first child was born, my wife and I experienced secondary infertility for nearly five years. We were blessed to eventually have a successful pregnancy (with twins!), but along the way the countless doctor visits, multiple miscarriages, and overall experience felt like a rollercoaster of getting your heart ripped out every 30 days, over and over and over.
It's one of the hardest things to deal with, both individually and as a couple, and definitely needs more awareness and priority in health care. But I wish a flood of love and support to them both, and, after they grieve, should they choose to try again, I wish them success.