In retrospect, I wouldn't have minded seeing "Magic Mike" with her hippy friend. She was hot, athletic, ended up doing master's degrees in computing sciences and cognitive psychology; she used to micro-dose LSD a few times a year and just happened to be utterly brilliant.
I would never cheat or even really associate with other girls during a relationship, but as in retrospect and as I've gotten older, I've realized that some people have, due to their years of irrational behaviour that was cultivated/encouraged, allowed themselves to be judged as being empirically selfish pieces of shit who don't care about anything (even family) except for the preservation of the sources of their greed.
Younger dudes of HF: look for girls who are challenging themselves in all facets of life and push themselves to be logical in all matters of discussion.