Today, hundreds of husbands and wives will hear these words from their cheating spouse, “I never meant for this to happen.†We are incredible escape artists. We use words to avoid consequences and to divert responsibility for our actions. However, affairs don’t happen to us, we choose them. We mean for them to happen. If you’re in the midst of infidelity, don’t you dare deflect your inability to control yourself. Don’t you dare manipulate the man or woman you just destroyed. Bad behavior comes at a cost. When you weasel your way around it, it doesn’t decrease the pain it increases the violation. My advice...this is your wakeup call. End it, turn around, and come back to the one you vowed to love. Wishing you the best, and may you stand strong through this ***** of a time set upon you by your two-timing ***** of a wife, Steve.