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*Googles strippers and happy endings*What's most wrong about this story...
If men were drugging and robbing women, and playing it for laughs in a movie, there would be hell to pay.
Also, I'm not sure they should be glamorizing "the life" of a dancer. As someone who grew up in Niagara and knew more of my share of dancers (both professionally and personally) in my previous bad boy life, things do NOT end well for these girls.
They all end up with either pimps or husbands who use them for their money, they lose their looks and the money dries up, they are often left addicted to drugs or booze, and they really struggling once their days on the stage end - what career can you fall back on at the age of 30 when you have ignored all areas of improvement (an education) over the last 11 years?
It's not a story with a happy ending. We'll have to see if the movie is honest about it.
Maybe she was already method acting for this partNot sure if I should commend the casting of Cardi B or call it tone deaf.
Amen. There is also the worry that someone will try this and someone will die.There's nothing wrong with making a movie about it and dark humor is kind of a complex thing, so I don't have a problem with them having more of a comedy angle. That being said, from what I've seen from trailers and just general buzz, there does seem to be this general aura of "female empowerment" behind this movie, which is super odd to me considering the subject matter.
Good point.Not sure if I should commend the casting of Cardi B or call it tone deaf.
I can't really comment much on it because I haven't seen the movie and don't really have a strong interest to see it (might be one of those things I may throw on one day if I'm bored, but probably not), but I think the whole "glamorizing the lifestyle" thing is a tricky line to walk. So much can just be attributed to style or just be overblown in general. I mean, the dancing/stripping world itself is kind of predicated on drawing people in with glitz/glamor that masks the sleaziness, so I think it's something that can actually be authentic.Amen. There is also the worry that someone will try this and someone will die.
There is a double standard, of course, and, like I said, the glamourizing of this lifestyle serves no one. We'll have to see how they end the movie.
I just think it's just an interesting point of discussion. I don't know how many here are actually interested in seeing the movie.Why is everyone in this thread so "Wont somebody think of the children!?!"?
Well said.I'm more talking about the general kind of "Woo! You go girl!" sentiment that seems to be present online for a movie that has a plot revolving around women drugging and robbing guys. I don't even care if there's a whole "sisterhood" element in the movie because that kind of stuff probably existed with a group of women that were working together in that setting. I just think it's weird to see that extend to real life outside of the movie where people are celebrating female empowerment because of the movie.
To your point, there is a solid strain of feminist thought who think sex work should be legalized. Kind of along the line of drug legalization vs criminalization, keeping it illegal simply moves it to the underground, and women are victimized because they have to have a pimp and can't go to the cops for anything because they are breaking the law. IMO it's more of a libertarian vs good government/religious point of view issue than feminist vs non-feminist (or left vs right if you wanna boil it down).I just think it's just an interesting point of discussion. I don't know how many here are actually interested in seeing the movie.
Why is everyone in this thread so "Wont somebody think of the children!?!"?
I'm not saying any of that. All I'm talking about is the odd sentiment of using a movie where the main plot point is women drugging and robbing men as some sort of rallying point for female empowerment. This isn't Coyote Ugly or something, it's a crime drama. I think it's more based on ignorance than anything (most people are probably like, "J-Lo on a stipper pole, woo!"), but I just think it's something odd to see.To your point, there is a solid strain of feminist thought who think sex work should be legalized. Kind of along the line of drug legalization vs criminalization, keeping it illegal simply moves it to the underground, and women are victimized because they have to have a pimp and can't go to the cops for anything because they are breaking the law. IMO it's more of a libertarian vs good government/religious point of view issue than feminist vs non-feminist (or left vs right if you wanna boil it down).
But the others clutching their pearls and saying this could make people do it in real life, yeah I'm sure it does happen in real life all time. People die, people get robbed, but nobody is gonna do it because J-Lo did it.
I mean aren't we kinda splitting hairs here? Guys love mob movies where they are beating the shit out of their wives, Oceans 8 was about a bunch of women stealing shit, Striptease, Showgirls and Magic Mike all took on stripping as a topic. It's a popcorn heist flick with female leads, not Sisterhood of the Travelling Pants or Devine Secrets of the Yaya Sisterhood.I'm not saying any of that. All I'm talking about is the odd sentiment of using a movie where the main plot point is women drugging and robbing men as some sort of rallying point for female empowerment. This isn't Coyote Ugly or something, it's a crime drama. I think it's more based on ignorance than anything (most people are probably like, "J-Lo on a stipper pole, woo!"), but I just think it's something odd to see.
Guys have been heavily featured in every different kind of movie, it's not the same thing when you're talking about all female cast, female director, etc. which is something that is much more rare and truly gets celebrated on a different level today. It's not like there aren't movies to get behind on that front, this just seems to be an odd one to get behind considering it's literally about drugging/robbing guys. It's not like it's one scene or something, that's the plot of the movie.I mean aren't we kinda splitting hairs here? Guys love mob movies where they are beating the **** out of their wives, Oceans 8 was about a bunch of women stealing ****, Striptease, Showgirls and Magic Mike all took on stripping as a topic. It's a popcorn heist flick with female leads, not Sisterhood of the Travelling Pants or Devine Secrets of the Yaya Sisterhood.
There definitely seems to be a lot of pearl clutching.
I don't have any immediate plans to see it, but I heard the word from tiff audiences were positive, with Jennifer Lopez getting some Oscar talk. It seems poised to have a decent opening weekend, with a shot at beating IT 2 for number one.
Guys have been heavily featured in every different kind of movie, it's not the same thing when you're talking about all female cast, female director, etc. which is something that is much more rare and truly gets celebrated on a different level today. It's not like there aren't movies to get behind on that front, this just seems to be an odd one to get behind considering it's literally about drugging/robbing guys. It's not like it's one scene or something, that's the plot of the movie.
This is an R Rated film about strippers, nobody is taking their daughter to this one for #sisterhood like they might have for Oceans 8. Is it aimed at a female audience? I would guess so, but why is that an issue?Guys have been heavily featured in every different kind of movie, it's not the same thing when you're talking about all female cast, female director, etc. which is something that is much more rare and truly gets celebrated on a different level today. It's not like there aren't movies to get behind on that front, this just seems to be an odd one to get behind considering it's literally about drugging/robbing guys. It's not like it's one scene or something, that's the plot of the movie.
I'm not saying it's problematic or anything, I just find it odd when there are so many other movies that they can use as an examples of female empowerment. It's not because it's centered around strippers, I'm talking about the criminal angle behind it. There's 100% been a "You go girl!" rhetoric behind this movie, and it's about drugging and robbing guys. That's a bizarre thing.This is an R Rated film about strippers, nobody is taking their daughter to this one for #sisterhood like they might have for Oceans 8. Is it aimed at a female audience? I would guess so, but why is that an issue?