I have become nearly obsessed with this virus. I read as much as I can and review data extensively. Virtually no nation has done better than Canada (At least nations who we trust, you must forgive me, I trust the UAE about as far as I can throw it). If you take the roughly 50 "first world nations", Canada is near the top. England has tested at nearly 2 times our tests/million and their numbers are all, percentage wise, higher. As is pretty much the bulk of Europe. Only some Scandinavian nations seem to have this thing in check. And my "amateur Doctor" guess is; we will discover a genetic reason for that. Ditto for Japan and S. Korea. Australia , NZ are islands and can be isolated much easier. There state of existence has been partially "isolative" since their births as nations.
Believe me, I am feeling your pain and understand your need to move as close to a 100% lock-down with extreme measures as possible. But we cannot. And even if we do, the virus will return since Canada is not in a bubble. Added measures will improve things. Our behavior will improve things. But sadly, we're pushing up against a limit. We must endure the next 4-5 months at around 5000-7000 tested cases (so anywhere from 10000-35000 true cases a day) until the vaccine is available and distributed. Added measures will reduce these numbers by small increments and not significant ones.
Keep your loved ones safe for the next 5 months, possibly 6. We may be at our limits in controlling this. And this may be of little consultation, I do not believe that it will escalate beyond the 5000-7000. Europe has shown us that small adjustments generally lead to rapid drop off (less Poland and Romania who are on a suicide path).
Well, it's basically impossible to ignore the situation.
Every country situation is unique. I have also read a boatload on it and if you look at Africa for example, they haven't suffered as much because of their way of living (climate really helps when you live "outside") and the population is much younger in general.
Personally I haven't been anywhere close to a 100% lockdown. Kids went to school everytime it was possible (it's the risk we take). I am not somebody who has a job but I still went on with some projects and did go out everytime I had to. I go to the post office 2-3 times a week. Costco every 2 weeks. Went to the barbershop yesterday. We're not people that go in bars or that kind of gathering, but would go to the restaurant regularly though so I did go when it was possible.
I don't trust strangers with their hygiene in general so for me social distancing is really not hard to do. How many times have I seen people using the public bathroom then not washing their hands? lol so disgusting. I haven't done any BBQ at my house this summer, would usually host a few ones. We focused on outdoor activities, so many parks around where I live. We just did mask and social distancing in public and since the very beginning. I'm not someone waiting for the governement to tell me what to do, I do what I have to and I did my part to help out not spreading the virus. It was never really more complicated than that. I am not sure what I have said in my post that made you thought I had been in "100% lock-down with extreme measures as possible" but anyway I am someone who went through and witnessed a lot of tragedies. I can't even count how many funerals I have attended in my life. Going to another one tonight. So I'm not going to do anything that could possibly make a family having to go through a tragedy. For me, it's just common sense and natural caring.
I think some people might diminish the role the population plays. Heck, I just talked to my father and he told me that he went to several bikers social events this year. A lot of people in confined spaces, no mask. I'm like "yeah not surprised France has been struggling that much". He also told me that people who have tested positive but still go out get a big fine and face criminal charges. Anyway, what a freaking mess.