Also, using Gretzky as an example of why size isn't a big issue for players to make it to the NHL is a bit ridiculous. It's like using Donald Trump as an example of why a bad hairdo isn't an obstacle for a man that wants to attract women.
Bad analogy. Money attracts a lot of women. Physical looks (and everything else) are secondary when you have that primary characteristic.
And I was using Gretzky to show how those criticisms are so often baseless and hilariously wrong. Every small player in the history of ever has heard 'em. Have you ever seen Scott Walker play? The guy is about 5'8" in real life, if that. He had a bad (good?) habit of losing his temper and hurting things. Not to mention Theo Fleury. And Marty St. Louis doesn't beat a whole lot of people up, but he ain't exactly what you would call a soft player.
Sort of agree, sort of disagree.
If you ask guys that have played at the AHL and NHL level, a lot of them will mention that there are guys at the AHL level that have the skills to be in the NHL, but can't quite cut it. Often size is a factor in that. It's not always THE factor, but it's definitely the one part of a player's game that they can't work on.
There are big, slow guys in the NHL that aren't particularly gifted offensively. I can't think of any small, slow guys in the NHL that aren't particularly gifted offensively. It's obviously not impossible to be a great small NHLer, but it IS another factor that these guys have to overcome on the way there.
The point is that that has less to do with actual ability and more to do with perception. And those big guys are often brought in as goons to punch the lights out of other large goons, not to play hockey.
The big slow guys are there to be big and to hurt things. Small guys, by virtue of mass, can't really play in that kind of role. That doesn't mean they can't really excel in other roles, and that does not mean that they cannot take a hit or two.
Being short is indeed an obstacle. But more often then not, it's not an obstacle to actually playing, it's an obstacle based on perception. The Brian Burke mentality runs deep with a lot of old hockey guys, despite the repeated success of small players.
As for guys still in the AHL, that's an issue for lots of players. The margins are just so thin between the leagues that it happens to a lot of guys, large and small. Hugh Jessiman being a great example of a big guy who just couldn't quite cut it, despite everything being there on paper. It's often about the breaks you get.
I used to talk online a fair bit with a guy who played in the AHL during the O6 days. He once described a camp with Chicago- he was in a late preseason game, near the final roster, and during that game, he caught a puck weakly on a rebound. It slid towards the net, and stopped in one of those snow piles goalies make along the post. He's reaching to tap it just the little bit more it needs to go in, but gets shoved by the defenseman and the goalie gets there to cover it up. He got sent back down to the AHL the next day. That inch of ice was very possibly the difference between that guy toiling in the minors and getting a chance to establish himself in the NHL, which he never did crack. That camp was his only real shot before new and better prospects were the ones getting the looks.
Happens all the time. There are small guys as well as big guys who get trapped in the minors and never get a chance, on margins as narrow as a pile of snow by the goalpost and not quite catching a puck well enough.
But the point is, I suppose, that performance and the lack of it is not nearly as affected by size as many, especially the old school, suppose. Thankfully, that attitude is going away. Jeff Skinner would not have gone nearly as highly if he was being drafted in the 90's, and Marty St. Louis would probably go fairly high in the draft today. But he wasn't selected then, out of fear that he was too small and as such, too delicate to play in the NHL. And then he won a scoring championship and an MVP in the clutch and grab era.
Back to the point of beer leagues though, where the differences in skill are not so minor, size is even less of a factor. Hate to break it to a lot of the guys here who many have nothing to their credit but size, but a guy who's 5'2" and is faster then you is almost always going to be the more effective player. Go to stick and pucks and watch 6'2" guys get owned by 12 year olds if you need convincing.