This is all speculation of course.
Put in his shoes and I'm sure the vast majority would be making a decision that is in their best interest, not the interest of an acquiring club. I wouldn't fault him if he leveraged his status for an opportunity to play at the NHL level.
I don't think it makes him a Dick. If he'd rather play in the NCAA than the AHL I have no problem with that. To me the comments surrounding make it seem that he is saying "If you give me a good shot at playing in the NHL I'll sign a contract, but otherwise I'm going to play another year in the NCAA"
I have seen nothing to indicate that he is saying "if you don't sign me to play in the NHL this year I am going to walk as soon as I can"
I was rather emulating a very funny Finnish joke about a guy who bursted a tire on an isolated road in middle of night and didn't have a jack to lift the car. Luckily, not far away he saw the light of a house and started walking there to loan a jack.
"Wait", he stopped, "I can't go there and wake these people up."
"But, of course they'd want to help im a dire situation like this", he though and started walking again towards the house.
"But", stop, "they have to go to work in the morning and need their sleep."
"No but it's cold night, I can't stay here either." Walk.
Stop. "But they may got kids. Going to school in the morning, or some baby they then can't get back to sleep."
"Nonsense", walk, "of course they'd be only happy to help fellow human being."
"Except", stop, "what if they don't? They just tell me to get bent?"
So the guy picks a fist-size rock off the ground and hurls it at the window of the house, and yells:
"YOU CAN ****ING KEEP YOUR JACK!"