AngryMilkcrates
End of an Era
- Jun 4, 2016
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I put this in the OT thread but it probably belongs here as it is because of the corona situation
so I have a situation. My neighbors are the type that always cry poor. When the husband was on strike friends gave them money so help pay their bills and feed their kids. When he went back to work instead of saying thank you and giving money back to the ones that gave it to them (in some cases thousands) they went out and bought a boat, a motorcycle went over seas on vacation a few months ago, just got back from a florida vacation last week.
Now they are saying to us they don't have any money he can't work OT (he is considered essential so will continue to work through the lockdown). They don't have enough money for food they say.
Do I step up and give them some food knowing they are probably fine and taking advantage and would not do the same in return. Very selfish people and if it was just the two of them i wouldn't even blink but the kids are my kids ages and it is killing me.
in the meantime I have no idea if I will have a job for long or my wife either. again he will keep his as he is union and essential. They know I am kind of a prepper but on a small scale. I am always worried about finances so i keep a good store of items on hand for the family in case of financial hardship which maybe coming very fast.
I hate when people are like that and spend spend spend vacations, cars, toys and cry I have no money and wait a bailout days after something like this happens. Yet I have saved and over time prepared for a situation like this so I don't have to leave the house.
what would you all do? am i selfish wanting to tell them you should have thought about this when you were given money last year during you strike and not gone out and spent the hard earned money people gave you to feed your family?
i am rambling because I am very upset about this right now!!
/end rant
Fool me once, same on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
Grasshopper and the ant story right here. They took peoples generosity and not only never repaid it, they took their profits from better times and did not save it. They did not learn their lesson.
IMO, time for some tough love. Give them not a red cent. If they have to tighten their belts they might learn this time around.
Better for them in the long run.