Ok well theres this guy on my team ive known this dude for like 17 years. But he is a total *******, we are playing for the championship and he takes penalties for the stupidest things, my coach wants me to talk to the guy since im the Captian. But seriously this guy is crazy, here are some of the things he does Fights anyone that is french Swears at the refs Taunts the refs, calling them names Treatins to fight the whole other team Sticks the middle finger up to fans (keep in mind kids are in the crowed), he swears and grabs his crotch while taunting the fans Shoots pucks at the other teams bench on purpose he slashes players whenever he can, hell he will fight whenever he can He shows up to games sometimes drunk or high sometimes both. The coach doesnt want to bench him because he is one of our better players, he can score goals on demand and is very fast. But the coach wants me hell he needs me to talk to him about toning down penalties and so on. How can i since the guy is my friend and i dont want to insult the dude. Another thing what would you do if there was guy on ur team like this guy? And if you were the captian of the team, how would you react to player like that? what would you do if you were the coach? would you bench him, knowing he can get you the goals that can win big games?