Okay, here is my problem. I play in three different leagues and all of them have different rules. The one team I am playing for is a women's beginner team. I am on it because I: a) want more ice time b) love playing hockey c) enjoy the team that I am on d) am playing with my cousin and best friend on this team Anyway, I am usually ending up with 2-4 penalty minutes per game for this team! It's really frustrating. And it's ONLY one ref who calls me. Last game I was passing the puck out and this girl came, full steam, and we ended up hitting knee on knee. No call. So I got up and limped to the bench. (I've already had 3 knee surguries...) The next shift, the same girl comes up and two hands me across the back of the shins. During the break in play I ask him he if can start watching the stick work since a few of us are getting chopped at. He told me to go sit down. THe next shift I end up getting LEVELED from behind.. I'm 5'9 and one of the strongest skaters on the ice so this girl had to be going FAST to nail me like that. I got back up and no call. NOW I'm pissed. I calmed myself down and asked the ref what the calls were going to be. If he was going to let us have body contact or not. He told me to sit back down. The next shift I angled a girl and rubbed her out. Didn't check her, just angleled her and I got a 5 minute major for boarding. What do I do? Do I go to the league and complain or do I keep playing the way that I am? Now, in this league, I don't even want to get in front of the net because if I touch a girl I get called.