OT: Off-Topic Thread - Airing of Grievances

[Ladyfan]

Had to put down my dog today after almost 14 years. I knew I was going to be sad, but it was/is much more emotional than I could have imagined

I am so sorry...sending a hug.

People who love animals are better people.

 

[eightspokedb]

Cat goes to

Somebody needs a time-out...

2 or 5 minute penalty.....deliberate intent to injure???

 

[Ron Quixote]

Plenty of older people get their kicks whining about how weak and ineffective the younger generation is. The problem is, if you over protect kids, they become unable to do things on their own. There are obviously precautions everyone should take, but paranoia will do more harm than good eventually.

I get zero kicks whining about anything... and I consider myself vigilant instead of paranoid.

 

[BMC]

Somebody needs a time-out...

2 or 5 minute penalty.....deliberate intent to injure???

Match penalty and suspension!!!!

 

[Ron Quixote]

No, no it hasn't.

My belief is that since I grew up in the 70's and now;

The population has multiplied and the lunatics and pervs have increased exponentially. The resources available to the aforementioned freaks via the internet give them even more opportunities.

You can have the last word but I'll leave this be.

 

[Ron Quixote]

To the grieving pet owners; take a smidge of solace knowing that your grief is only a drop in the bucket compared to the love and comfort we shared with our furry family.

To the job-seekers... best of luck in your search.

 

[Ron Quixote]

Ohman... I'd give Seidenbergy's left nut to be able to work again.

Merry Christmas!

 

[Aeroforce]

I think crime statistics are like advanced stats in hockey - they have to be taken in context. For instance, where I live crimes like burglaries are way down from years past. Then again, every house now has a monitored alarm, which none used to have.

Do I feel safer? No, I don't.

I extend heartfelt sympathies on the pet losses. A couple of months ago, I thought we were about to lose my parents' 14 old cat who I am very attached to. Miraculously she pulled through and is fine, but I was devastated thinking about putting her down.

I don't know if it was mentioned, but Pat DiNizio of the Smithereens passed away, at only 62.

 

[Chief Nine]

Pat DiNizio of the Smithereens passed away. One of my favorite bands from way back

Pat DiNizio, giant of NJ rock scene, dies at 62

How ironic that this picture was taken in June 2013 when The Smithereens were opening for Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers

In case anyone's unfamiliar with The Smithereens have a listed to one of their best songs:

 

[GloryDaze4877]

I'm in the "older" generation, but I've moved around a lot on my own. And now that I'm in the consulting business, I know I won't say at a client for very long. My last contract got extended a couple of times and I was there for about 20 months. That's a long time. My current contract is for 4 months. It's the nature of the business that I chose. I've also moved between three different consulting companies, because I don't feel that loyalty is a huge thing any more (at least in my line of work). That may change with my current company, as I like them a lot. but ultimately, it will come down to whether or not they can get me my next contract.

Lou's experience is pretty typical - benefits dwindle, expectations increase, and pay struggles to keep up with the standard of living. Joe, I think your experience is more the exception than the norm. But I'm glad for your sake that you were with that particular company during your tough time.

I worked in retail as a manager prior to my stint where I am now. It was like night and day compared to that job, but apparently we are the exception and not the rule.

I don’t think the company I work for necessary pays the highest salary, but we are employee-owned, have been around 100+ years, have profit sharing and stock offerings and a pension plan. I haven’t worked at a lot of different places, but enough to know that I would be hard pressed to find a more stable company to work for.

 

[LouJersey]

Were the people that think it's safer now over growing up in the 70's, growing up in the 70's? Maybe it's because the new generation stays inside all the time?

 

[GloryDaze4877]

Pat DiNizio of the Smithereens passed away. One of my favorite bands from way back

Pat DiNizio, giant of NJ rock scene, dies at 62

How ironic that this picture was taken this June when The Smithereens were opening for Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers

In case anyone's unfamiliar with The Smithereens have a listed to one of their best songs:

This is unfortunate. I have liked the Smithereens since hearing “Blood and Roses” on the soundtrack for a not particularly good movie called “Dangerously Close”.

Didn’t realize he was that old, but the song was released in 1986, so I guess I should have

 

[McGarnagle]

Why is that?

Basically everything Michael Scott ever said to Toby applies here.

 

[BigBadBruins7708]

in the good news category, at least The Cars are finally getting the recognition they deserve. They got elected to the Rock and Roll HOF

 

[Kate08]

Basically everything Michael Scott ever said to Toby applies here.

Never really watched the Office that closely, but I assume this has something to do with the stereotypes of HR and the people in the profession.

Which, I don't have the energy to argue with, so I will just smile and nod.

 

[BMC]

Pat DiNizio of the Smithereens passed away. One of my favorite bands from way back

Pat DiNizio, giant of NJ rock scene, dies at 62

How ironic that this picture was taken this June when The Smithereens were opening for Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers

In case anyone's unfamiliar with The Smithereens have a listed to one of their best songs:

Love this song. Also "Behind The Wall of Sleep"

 

[BMC]

in the good news category, at least The Cars are finally getting the recognition they deserve. They got elected to the Rock and Roll HOF

Along with The Moody Blues which was a surprise to me, I honestly thought they had been selected years ago. My bad.

 

[Chief Nine]

This is unfortunate. I have liked the Smithereens since hearing “Blood and Roses” on the soundtrack for a not particularly good movie called “Dangerously Close”.

Didn’t realize he was that old, but the song was released in 1986, so I guess I should have

Another great song. Severely underrated band and Pat DiNizio was a really good songwriter and guitarist. (Much better than another grossly overrated songwriter from the same state...)

 

[Sheppy]

House hunting is so incredibly stressful. Especially when you consider the cost of living where i live. Holy balls.

That said, i just booked my flights to Vegas in February for 4 nights at the Linq. Only $700 for everything including a return flight.

Just booked my flight to my buddies Stag party in Denver... 15 of us going, 4 games in 4 nights (Denver vs Minnesota, Rockies vs Braves, Av's vs Blues, and Rockies vs Braves series finale) - Thats going to be a complete gonger of a weekend.

Then, booked flights back east for a little trip in the summer to work on the old mans house with him for a bit.

Then, booked a flight to Toronto for Boots & Hearts music festival.

The last few days my credit card has taken a beating, hahaha.

 

[Fenway]

Montreal sportstalk host Mitch Melnick apparently is a Bruins fan

 

[Glove Malfunction]

House hunting is so incredibly stressful. Especially when you consider the cost of living where i live. Holy balls.

That said, i just booked my flights to Vegas in February for 4 nights at the Linq. Only $700 for everything including a return flight.

Just booked my flight to my buddies Stag party in Denver... 15 of us going, 4 games in 4 nights (Denver vs Minnesota, Rockies vs Braves, Av's vs Blues, and Rockies vs Braves series finale) - Thats going to be a complete gonger of a weekend.

Then, booked flights back east for a little trip in the summer to work on the old mans house with him for a bit.

Then, booked a flight to Toronto for Boots & Hearts music festival.

The last few days my credit card has taken a beating, hahaha.

Looks like you've got quite the itinerary coming up. Have a blast! (but be careful in Vegas!)

 

[Sheppy]

Looks like you've got quite the itinerary coming up. Have a blast! (but be careful in Vegas!)

Vegas is always rough on the system. You're basically fueling yourself with beers for 4 straight days, haha.

 

[Kovi]

idk

wow

 

[Kovi]

How do I get the DM alert to come up as big as day when someone messages me? I thought I had that set.
sorry Bets.

 

[Agent86]

The company I work for is a $6 billion dollar business.

I read what you posted and offered a counterpoint. Every company and individual is different.

Interesting discussion. As the future of work continues to evolve, the secret of long term employment with one company has remained fairly static - execute or be executed, add value, build relationships, do what the majority won't/be flexible and be aware of your limitations.

I have worked for the same company for 37 years (50+ billion dollar/year business) in various roles and have seen lots let go over the years (just laid off 500+ in late October out of a workforce of over 175,000+). People swept up in this last round were let go for 4 reasons - redundancy, poor performance/poor choice, technology/outsource, or over compensation.

The first three reasons are usually early/mid career disruptions, ie - hired to implement/train new process, once completed - the job ends. You will be at risk so be aware and ensure you also provide other value - most organizations will find a fit elsewhere. The last reason is usually a late career disruption as you move up the ladder in title and pay/compensation. At some point the business will assess it's return on investment and if you are not as committed as you once were (normal course of action as priorities shift to kids and social engagements that start to take precedence over our jobs) and are blocking younger talent, you are at risk. Just as your path was being blocked by someone else earlier in you career. It sucks but it is business. Usually, in our business at least, when you get to this point you should be very well set up for the rest of your life as long as you realized that this is the end game and prepared yourself accordingly.

I have always approached my job with the understanding that when I get paid the business has met it's short term obligations to me. It is up to me to continue to give them reasons to keep paying me.